He chats whenever he gets free time, sometimes very intimate chatting.
He got some ads of Russian women, and I could tell pretty easy it was all scam.
Can I share my opinion with you, speaking from a point of view of a Russian woman, and I hope mature enough.
I don’t know how to get him back to his normal life.
—Stuck I’m not sure what his normal life looked like, because his current life is so far beyond the bounds of “normal” husband-dom and fatherhood that I’m unclear as to where his starting point could have been.
Nevertheless, if you speak some Russian (speaking Russian is a HUGE advantage as many women don’t speak English), have some decent conversation skills and a tremendous work ethic, you will be in a good position to attain success in Russia.
Your best success with online dating in Russia will be in Moscow and Saint Petersburg.
He is very secretive about her and doesn’t let me see what she writes to him.
My husband gets very angry when I tell him how much this hurts me.
Your marriage and your friendship take precedence over any “female” friend (or whatever). This is a relationship at the very least and definitely wrong for a married man to participate in. Please contact AACC for a referral to a counseling professional in your area.
He is destroying the trust, intimacy and commitment in your marriage. If he refuses to go to counseling with you, ask him to see your pastor about this.
Another clue of a pretender is a woman who has a poorly written profile. Russian is by far the best online dating site in Russia.