Dating and marriage in togo

They are women of two worlds: they know Africa and also understand the West. Most of these women wanted a way out of the sorrow and the lack of opportunities in Kenya, Guinea, Botswana, Liberia, and Eritrea and elsewhere.Why do African men go home to marry the “unknowns” instead of marrying the proven and the reliable here in the US? Once, he was the man who moved mountains and parted the heavens so it rained. The modern times have not been exactly good to him because of the multiplying effects of globalization and modernity. In Nigeria, Cameroon, Mali, Madagascar and Mauritania, it is about running away from the fetid and stifling conditions that stunts dreams and kill optimism. Therefore, when presented with the opportunity to hop, they pack and run!

In the US at least, one could petition for his future wife by way of the Fiancé Visa provision or through outright marriage which could take upward of twenty months. But why do African men go though this tortuous and circuitous immigration process? Though the preceding assertion is not empirically grounded, one can not but notice that “greenhorn marriages” dissolve quicker — mostly within five years with or without offspring.

Why do African men go home to marry instead of marrying the women they’ve wined and dined and romanced right here in the US. More often than not most of these marriages are not based on love or affection.

There’s good and bad aspects to any person out there but here to make light of the topic and just offer up some of the good stuff about dating an African man.

Of course, you understand by now that this is a very subjective, yet fun, list.

It stretches inland for 360 miles but is only 31 miles wide at the coast and 100 miles at its widest point.

In the north, the land is characterized by a gently rolling savanna. The southern plateau reaches a coastal plain with extensive lagoons and marshes.The climate is tropical and humid for seven months, while the dry, desert winds of the Harmattan blow south from November to March, bringing cooler weather though little moisture.Annual temperatures vary between 75 and 98 degrees Fahrenheit (23 and 35 degrees Celsius) in the south and 65 to 100 degrees Fahrenheit (18 to 38 degrees Celsius) in the north.Chances are, you’ve already made an assumption about the nature of this post. This is not a post telling you to date an African man over an African-American man. It is about giving our motherland brothers a chance.For some, the idea of dating an African man conjures up a lot of myths and fears like the image of the over-controlling man.These types of parties, whether big or small, are taking place all over the US. Therefore, yesterday’s greenhorns will become the “ever-present and ever-knowing” of tomorrow.

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